Family of origin drama, difficult dynamics, the cis-hetero wedding industry, ableism, fatphobia, and traditional Christian values can all get in the way.
You are not alone in this struggle, and don’t have to tackle it alone!
Whether you need a cheerleader, an accessibility logistics coordinator, or a guide to setting and maintaining boundaries, I’ve got you!
Your wedding should be a celebration of your full authentic self.
Free Resources
Gender-Inclusive Planning Spreadsheets
Accessibility Checklists
Wedding Boundaries 101
You can find free wedding resources on tons of popular wedding planning platforms, but they’ll assume you’re a bride & a groom doing things the “old-fashioned way.” My resources are designed specifically for queer couples. We deserve it!
Support Sessions
Focused, affirming 60-minute sessions.
Access Planning: Make your day accessible for everyone, especially you
Ceremony & Logistics Clarity: Build a Queer wedding that reflects you
Support Mapping: Identify who can show up for you, and how to ask them
Each includes a custom follow-up resource tailored to your needs.
Ongoing Support Packages
My Ongoing Packages offer grounding and guidance throughout your journey.
The Ember: 3-session bundle with between-session text support
The Flame: 5 sessions + custom tools, emotional prep, and post-wedding care
You deserve to feel supported on your entire wedding journey, not just the big day.